Angry All The Time

As you may have noticed, I took some time off from the blog.  It started back in June when I took on the development of an Agile Project Managment training course.  I was too busy to write so I took a week off.  That week snowballed into nearly three months in the blink of an eye.  Now that I am nearly done with the Agile course, I have decided to consider it my summer break.  So now it’s time to get back to writing.

You know it is not a good sign when anyone gives you a book and says, this “may come in handy”.  So you can imagine my horror when my client did exactly that and handed me the book, “Angry All the Time”.  Ouch!

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Whether or not it is a good book remains to be seen.  What I do know is I felt angry when he gave it to me.  More accurately, I felt disappointed and sad.  Emotions were supposed to be a strength for me, right?  Doesn’t he recognize my expertise in this area?

Apparently, writing about something and then living it out on a day to day basis is not the same thing.  What my client accurately perceived was that I was angry.  I had snapped at one of the team leads on the program in a team wide meeting.  Not a capital offense but worth keeping an eye on nonetheless.

So why was I angry?  I was angry because this individual had just asked the same question in a meeting just prior to the team wide meeting.  At least that was what I thought in the moment.  The reality was a little more complex and to explain that

 

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Anger – Carrying all the upset for the team

Sad – Not going to reach our goals.

Scared – Going to lose my job.